The Myth of the Tight Pussy And Other Lies. "So why are guys always talking about hoes having loose vaginas and good girls “keeping it tight”? Because they are uninformed and stupid. And they’re not paying attention to how their own size factors into it. If a guy is saying a woman’s vagina is so big, it might be because he has a really small dick. Or an average size vagina can feel small if you are really big."