Or you can be whatever the fuck you want because you're a person. And /people/ have all different kinda of personalities and preferred appearances that don't have anything to do with what they do or don't have in their pants.
Ahhhh my love, this is so true!! You have helped me in more ways than I can say to help me look inwardly and outwardly to change and transform so much of myself to become a better man for YOU!!! Thank you my dear sweetheart!! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!