For the Groom---It's time to call in the troops and decide whom you want by your side for the biggest day of your life so far. So, how do you go about choosing your groomsmen? Whoever accepts the honour of being in your wedding party is automatically taking on a financial obligation. Can the individual you are asking afford this, or is it going to create a problem? Be assured that he will say yes because he's your friend and isn't thinking about what it's going to cost him.